not getting any at home

just wondering how many other men and women out there has a spouse that makes you feel like you have to beg for it to even get any.to be honest if my wife would act interested i probably wouldnt even_ Hermina:At first he’d always Snapchat me first but now I find myself being the one to [...]
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Thomasine:
You messaged her and told her you'd like to spend the night with each other and even tho she says 'sounds nice', she doesn't invite you in. (She lives alone). In a restaurant you put your hands on her knees and she seems paranoid of other people looking.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
This goes on for 4 more dates over a few weeks.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
You're both single, in your 40s.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
She says she was upset when her last relationship ended a couple of years ago and wants to go slowly.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
You ask her if she has no heart or what.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
Hug and kiss her outside her place but she doesn't invite you in.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
Next day you meet again for drinks.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
On first date..very nice conversation -at end of night (6 hr date) she says 'I'm not inviting you in', you leave her off to her place ask her for a kiss and you have a short one on the mouth.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
You look her up and start messaging, then ask her out for dinner.
(24 March 2017)

Thomasine:
You talk for an hour and it's flirtatious.
(24 March 2017)