Grow up?

So what do you all think about the possibility that swingers can grow up? 2 years ago we started swinging with the enthusiasm of hormonal teenagers going to prom. We were traveling most weekends and_ Yadira:How long should we wait to get married ?(26 January 2017) Yadira:I was gonna propose to her on Valentine’s Day but I [...]
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Lianne:
He told me he doesn't want to have sex because when he does he starts to remember all the good times and he gets old feelings that come back.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
When we have sex he holds me tight, and looks into my eyes and smiles at me, he acts the same as he always has, the sex hasn't changed.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
We had sex today too because I was in his bedroom again after not getting any sleep all night.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
So he came to me and kissed me and we had passionate sex for the first time in a week.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
And I told him that I didn't want to leave.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
I was in bed with him and after all the talking he told me that he feels alittle turned on, and that I should leave.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
The first time I went to his house we talked and he tried to get it through my head that we cannot be together.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
There was 2 times where I stayed at his house because I was so consumed with sadness and loneliness, I had to be near him.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
We decided to keep being friends.
(25 January 2017)

Lianne:
We were together for 2 years and we broke up a week ago.
(25 January 2017)